Dreaming that your lover is cheating on you is one of the most common dreams of all. Internet surveys have shown that most people dream of cheating mates at least four times a year. Some even dream of it as often as once every month. However, experts are saying that even though this dream presents something negative – it can be good for you.

Author of the book Cracking The Dream Code Lauri Loewenberg says that the reason for this type of dreaming is simple.

“The cheating dream happens when we are feeling CHEATED out of our time with our mate.’ Said Loewenberg. ‘The dreams are no fun because the feelings we experience in the dream are very real. These dreams hurt! But they are good for us because they are waking us up to the fact that something has been on the receiving end of our mate’s time and attention rather than us.”

She also continues saying, ‘In my thirteen years of research, I’ve found that when a woman gets the cheating dream, ‘the mistress’ is usually hubby’s work. No one seems to work just 9-5 anymore. Less often it’s football or golf. When a man gets this dream, the culprit is usually his own kids! Once children come along, hubby is no longer babied. The kids get all the attention he used to get. And when it comes time for ‘sexy-times’, she’s bushed!”

In short, these types of dreams are good because it helps the dreamer evaluate his or her relationship.

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